I am sure you have seen those ads, where Credit Card companies or Banks offer you FREE credit cards for the rest of the family. All of these credit cards are linked to the same bank account.
Initially this may seem like a good idea, you will get to those air-miles, fly-buys, or other bonuses faster and your kids will just pay you back right?
What is this teaching our kids?
That it is cool to spend their parent’s money, because they will bail them out anyways.
Imagine having a credit card with a limit of $10.000, $12.000 or $15.000, some folks may have a limit up to $25.000. The credit limit on the main card is the amount of money your children can potentially spend; Your Children can spend your credit quite easily if your kids haven’t got a clue about money. Why don’t you just give your children a blank, signed check or the whole check book in fact.
This is not teaching our children anything about money, financial responsibility or good money habits for that matter, at all; The only ones benefit from this are the credit card companies.
You as a parent may end up losing the good credit score you have built up over the years.
There are other ways for your children to have access to a credit card. At the same time, you want them to build up a credit of their own.
One idea would be to get your children a credit card of their own. Linked to their own bank account and have a small limit of say $500 or $1.000, depending on how responsible your kids are. This way, when your kids keep up with the payments, your children will start building up a credit score of their own. If they don’t pay back on time, they won’t build up a huge debt. Just keep an eye on those interest payments when your children don’t pay on time.
An even better idea is to have your kids have a “secured” credit card linked to their own bank account. This means that your children need a certain amount on their account, which they are not allowed to use, as a security against the credit limit of the credit card. This way your kids will never over-spend on their card and your kids still build up their credit score. Your children will still need to make sure they pay their card in time, every month.
Building up a good credit score is very important later in life when your kids are buying a house or other bigger purchases. The mortgage rates and conditions are far better for people with good credit scores than the ones with poor credit scores.
The reason for this is that people with good credit scores have paid their credit cards on time and have a skill called, money management. Banks and other lending facilities will consider this as a sign of low risk for lending out money, therefore the conditions are more favourable for people with a good credit score.
I believe that having a credit card is not a bad thing, as long as you start off with a small limit to teach your kids responsibility with money, and make sure they pay the debt off each month.
On most TV shows, people are advised to cut up their credit cards. This does not solve the problem, the next credit card offer will be in the mail the next week. In the end it all comes down to proper money management.
These are just a few of my thoughts on this matter. I’d love to hear some of your ideas, suggestions or questions on the subject.