Posts Tagged ‘kids’

How Can I Encourage My Children to be More Active?

Thursday, March 11th, 2010

Building of Outdoor Play Apparatus

As parents we are constantly reminded that it is our responsibility to get our offspring to be active, to get exercise and not to lie around eating fast food while playing computer games. Many parents will probably agree that persuading their children to ignore their televisions and computer games can be impossible.

Last year I invested a significant amount of hard earned cash in a few pieces of outdoor play equipment, chosen by my two youngsters. They always enjoy a visit to our local park where they can race around, swing on the swings, slide on the slides, bounce on the bouncy things and climb the climbing frames. Unfortunately our nearest park is about 3 miles away so these visits are not as frequent as they or I would like. So I bit the bullet and shelled out quite a bit of money on a wooden swing slide playset and climbing frame which I put together whilst my wife was conveniently at the health spa.

Now I would like to report that my generosity has paid off and my children are now fit and active and can’t get enough of their new equipment.But nothing could be further from the truth. Since I installed the equipment (which presented many headaches, took a lot of hammering and quite a bit of bad language) they have probably only played on it three times. Admittedly I didn’t get the equipment until the Autumn of 2009 and since then our weather has been atrocious.

At least that is the reason they give when I try to convince them that they’d enjoy a little outdoor play. It’s too cold, they often say. Or, ‘the swings are too wet to sit on’ is another excuse that I hear. I’ll be needing one of those spa treatments at this rate!

I’m hoping that, as we move into spring and the weather improves, they will naturally want to get out into the garden and get some much needed exercise on their new outdoor toys. I’m dreading another miserable, wet summer as this will result in my expanding children just expanding even more instead of working off those excess pounds with a little outdoor adventure. Nobody ever said that being a parent was easy. Although the odd massage does go down well when it all gets a bit stressful


How To Help Children learn

Friday, February 26th, 2010

There are actually several methods out there when it comes to teaching your children and believe it or not the fun activities are the best. After all you want them to be the best they can be in their life and part of this is down to learning as much as they can. So what are the ways you can actually help them to learn?

Reading

This does happen at schools all of the time but kids do seem to have a lot more respect for their parents than they do their teachers. It is very easy not to sit down with your child and read them a story every night. This really has got to be done so the kids can see the fun in reading. You can perform actions and really get them involved and make them feel like they are someone within the story world. Doing this every night will make them look forward to reading and encourage them to do it by themselves which is great!

Instrument

We aren’t talking fancy DJ equipment and electric guitars but something like a recorder. This seems to often be the first major instrument that a child will play and you can learn along with the child. It actually really helps with children as they learn all of the musical notes they may need for the future. It also helps the brain to develop, you never know they may actually want to carry it on and learn to play drum kits.

Playing

This is something a lot of parents also do not find time to do with their children and it is very important that you do. When you are out playing with them you are actually teaching them many life lessons such as sharing and how to be safe you get to spend time with the kids too. Nothing wrong with that at all!


Understanding Your Children

Thursday, February 18th, 2010

David Artsmith  -  A child is the most precious thing in the world. It represents the future. When you care for a child, you are nurturing the next generation of humanity, and the next age of life on this planet. That is why it is important to make time for your kids. Life is busy, the world moves faster and faster every day, and there are constantly new distractions to take our time away. It is important to prioritize your time and put your kids first.

One of the things that you can do is try and incorporate your kids into activities that you already find fun. If your a baseball fan, start bringing them to games. If you prefer opera, then teach them something about opera. If your into interior decorating, help them to makeover their room in a cool new theme.

However there is one important thing to note. Your kids won't always like what you like. Sometimes a love of NASCAR skips a generation. That’s why you have to be open to new experiences, and try and have as broad a perspective as possible.

You can start by trying them out on a variety of activities that you enjoy. But just because the two of you don;t agree on a particular activity is no reason to be discouraged, simply move on and try something else.

On the other hand, you have to be willing to try new experiences when they show an interest in something. Even if its not something that you are extremely excited about. You don’t have to be a fake; you just have to be willing to give everything a chance. There are an infinite number of ways to pass the time, eventually the two of you will agree on one.

The most important thing is to make an effort. Too many parents sit their kids in front of the TV all day and ignore them. Instead try to engage them, get to know them, and nurture them while they are still young.